Adoption learning resources Talking to Children about COVID-19 also referred to as the Corona Virus. There is lots of information available to help talk to Children about COVID-19 but it is important to stick to trusted sites and sources for the latest safe and up to date guidance and information. Here are some recommended links that you might find useful during this time. UNICEF's 8 Top Tips for talking to your child about Corona Virus https://www.unicef.org/coronavirus/how-talk-your-child-about-coronavirus-covid-19 Dr Ranj explains the Corona Virus to Jobi. Click here to watch the episode on BBC iPlayer. While we cant hug This animation created by Eoin Mclaughlin and Polly Dunbar #WhileWeCantHug is a new Hedgehog and Tortoise e-book to help children cope with social distancing. Advice from the World Health Organisation about helping children and young people to cope with stress. The ARC Adoption team have listed the following helpful resources to provide parents with additional support; How to Teach Your Kids about the Brain When children understand what’s happening in the brain, it can be the first step to having the power to make choices. Knowledge can be equally powerful to parents too. Knowing how the brain works means we can also understand how to respond when our children need our help. How to teach your kids about their brain A huge free printable list of 100 calm down strategies for kids. These are simple strategies kids can use to calm down when angry, upset, frustrated, or overwhelmed. The free printable makes an excellent addition to a homemade calm down kit as well. Calm down strategies for kids 100 SIMPLE CALM DOWN STRATEGIES FOR KIDS The Window of Tolerance Explained When your child has flipped their lid, the “upstairs” part of the brain is not available. The upstairs part of the brain is where we can make decisions, show empathy, have self control etc. Therefore, we need to wait until the child calms down or help them calm down, before we start trying to rationalise with them. Watch this short video here: Summary of the whole brain Similarly, when your child is upset, we should first connect right brain to right brain. Yes, with empathy. Then, once they are more receptive, we are able to redirect with the left brain. Redirect does not mean to distract. It means to involve the child in making amends and finding solutions together. This page is dedicated to parents and carers of children living with trauma pain. http://www.fasdnetwork.org/uploads/9/5/1/1/9511748/survival_in_school_birth_trauma.pdf Children’s books The family Book – Todd Parr- celebrates all kinds of families and shows how each one is special in its own way. The ‘I love you book’ – Todd Parr - celebrates the unconditional love between parent and child. From the heartfelt ('I love you when you need hugs') to the light hearted ('I love you when you hide my keys') and with many moments in between that are sure to make readers smile and reminisce, this is the perfect book for families to share together to remind children how much they are loved, each and every day. It’s OK to be different – Todd Parr - Inspires children (and adults) to embrace their individuality through acceptance of others and self-confidence The Great Big family Book – Mary Hoffman & Ros Asquith - This is a fresh, optimistic look through children's eyes at today's wide variety of family life: from homes, food, ways of celebrating, schools and holidays to getting around, jobs and housework, from extended families, languages and hobbies to pets and family trees. BookTrust have put together a list of favourite books for little ones that show and celebrate, diverse families. They're also brilliant, fun reads that you'll really love sharing with your child. And Tango Makes Three Author: Justin Richardson and Peter Parnell Illustrator: Henry Cole Publisher: Simon and Schuster Children's Books Interest age: 3+ Reading age: 5+ Roy and Silo are two boy penguins who live in the zoo in New York's Central Park. This is a really delightful story and the message behind it is subtle. It's a true story, and you can learn more about it in a note at the end. Baby's First Words Author: Tessa Strickland and Kate DePalma Illustrator: Christiane Engel Publisher: Barefoot Books Interest age: 0-3 Designed by a child development expert so it supports the way babies naturally learn language, this book is full of warm colours and down-to-earth glimpses of family life. There are over 100 words to learn in this sturdy board book. Everywhere Babies Author: Susan Meyers Illustrator: Marla Frazee Publisher: Red Wagon Books Interest age: 0-3 This gorgeous board book follows all sorts of babies – 'small babies, tall babies, winter and spring babies' – over the course of a year. It's a true celebration of babies and the joy and giggles they bring – and also highlights the diversity of everyday family life. Mommy, Mama and Me Author: Leslea Newman Illustrator: Carol Thompson Publisher: Tricycle Press Interest age: 0-3 What a treat: a warm and adorably illustrated board book about a loving family which just happens to have two mums in it. There's a fun, upbeat universality to it: the packing of lunches, the trip to the playground, the baking of cakes and the end-of-the-day bath. The Family Book Author: Todd Parr Publisher: Little Brown & Company Interest age: 3-6 Reading age: 5-8 A joyous picture book about the importance of family and all the strength it can give you, this celebrates family in all its wonderful, diverse glory. The message is subtle, but a crucial one: every family is special and the only thing that matters is love. The Great Big Book of Families Author: Mary Hoffman Illustrator: Ros Asquith Publisher: Frances Lincoln Interest age: 4+ Reading age: 7+ The Great Big Book of Families is about the diversity of families. The simple message is that every family is unique and special and that there is no such thing as "normal" or "abnormal". Under the Love Umbrella Author: Davina Bell Illustrator: Allison Colpoys Publisher: Scribble Interest age: 3-7 Reading age: 5+ Bright, expressive and featuring joyfully diverse illustration throughout, Under the Love Umbrella provides poetic reassurance that whatever happens, children will be protected and loved. We Are Family Author: Patricia Hegarty Illustrator: Ryan Wheatcroft Publisher: Caterpillar Books Interest age: 4-7 Reading age: 5+ On each double-page spread of this vibrant, lovely book, families show the different ways they experience a variety of common experiences to us all. Overall, the great thing about families, whatever their makeup, is that they help us through the difficult times. This P.A.C.E. illustration was created by Emma Sutton with input from clinical psychologist and renowned expert on P.A.C.E and therapeutic parenting, Kim Golding. Emma Sutton draws on the following books that she has personally read: Creating Loving Attachments; Parenting with PACE to Nurture Confidence and Security in the Troubled Child, by Kim S Golding and Daniel A Hughes Everyday Parenting with Security and Love; Using PACE to Provide Foundations for Attachments by Kim S Golding The following books are useful resources for those looking to learn more about attachment; Attachment Focused parenting, by Dan Hughes Building the Bonds of Attachment (3rd ed) by Dan Hughes If you would like to find out more about the adoption resources or you would like to access support from ARC Adoption's Therapeutic Adoption Support Team then please email [email protected] or 0191 516 6466